No one can saves you except yourself!
You must understand yourself!
- Ancient Philosopher
CLF
Contact: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Monday, June 30, 2008
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Truth Hurts
When we speak of truth and the truth hurts.
That is the truth about The Truth in life.
In particular statement, this principle some would heard of - "When you know the truth, the Truth shall set you free" & the individual will not be the captive of their thoughts, emotions; they will be alot "freedom" having healthier cognitive states, better body or health & higher energy level to cope better of The Truth in life. Not moving in & out of acceptance & not being able to let go. Observation and reflection on these truths in order to let go of our grasping and holding on; one of the way to see things in different perspectives, thus changes the consequences. Consequences of thoughts life, changing the consequences of life with different set of perspectives & embracing making the best out of the Truth in life.
There are some of us, do not understand what this statement means in a deeper meaning in life. Many would agree in general that human like to see what they want to see, hear what they want to hear. Things are beautiful or in a facade so as long it does not get in their ways as such to hinder them. However, many times, what we see are not what it may seemed to be and what we heard may not be what it is.
There are many of us retract or withdraw to the inner world as not be be hurt as Truth as mentioned would hurt. Truth is confrontational, truth is ruthless, truth is no nonsense, Truth is clear, Truth is direct and Truth is insensitive towards emotions, it does not care about whether the individual is able to handle it or not.
There are individual who are afraid or fearful, difficulties to face it after many struggles through pains, totally shaken or broken down of the individuals' perspectives, values & belief system.
For example Truth is like an alarm sounding in life for life improvement, life changes,for life transition in life or seperation in death. When it first started, it seems to be hostile, unfamiliar to what the individual knows about life, this causes trembles, anxiety, worries or fear etc.; usually with a mixtures of emotions.
Case studies
An individual is diagnosed with terminal illness or an individual denying the fact of the broken relationship, which leads to seperation. The process of loss is obvious, the letting go and accepting the fact or truth wasnt there at the instance. Individual in such situation go through deep suffering and going through a journey only themselves would understand. There may be are complicated anxiety, fear, worries, denial, anger, frustration and the list would go on & on.
Truth in this particular situation of illness are a bit difficult for the individual to accept as the individual losing capability to do things on their own.
Truth are not easy to handle, truth stares into the eyes of the individual and it take great courage for the individual to face it. How would one able to face the truth happening "internally and externally?". What are the crucial factors in identifying and understand oneself? Would it be too late to do such preparation in the face of such crisis or should one have deeper contemplation pertaining to it?
Contributed by Hypnosis Training Asia from the years of experience dealing with the individual from different walks of life on the process of letting go in death & conscious dying.
CLF
Contact: +65 8333 3898
Email: Canlovefoundation@gmail.com
That is the truth about The Truth in life.
In particular statement, this principle some would heard of - "When you know the truth, the Truth shall set you free" & the individual will not be the captive of their thoughts, emotions; they will be alot "freedom" having healthier cognitive states, better body or health & higher energy level to cope better of The Truth in life. Not moving in & out of acceptance & not being able to let go. Observation and reflection on these truths in order to let go of our grasping and holding on; one of the way to see things in different perspectives, thus changes the consequences. Consequences of thoughts life, changing the consequences of life with different set of perspectives & embracing making the best out of the Truth in life.
There are some of us, do not understand what this statement means in a deeper meaning in life. Many would agree in general that human like to see what they want to see, hear what they want to hear. Things are beautiful or in a facade so as long it does not get in their ways as such to hinder them. However, many times, what we see are not what it may seemed to be and what we heard may not be what it is.
There are many of us retract or withdraw to the inner world as not be be hurt as Truth as mentioned would hurt. Truth is confrontational, truth is ruthless, truth is no nonsense, Truth is clear, Truth is direct and Truth is insensitive towards emotions, it does not care about whether the individual is able to handle it or not.
There are individual who are afraid or fearful, difficulties to face it after many struggles through pains, totally shaken or broken down of the individuals' perspectives, values & belief system.
For example Truth is like an alarm sounding in life for life improvement, life changes,for life transition in life or seperation in death. When it first started, it seems to be hostile, unfamiliar to what the individual knows about life, this causes trembles, anxiety, worries or fear etc.; usually with a mixtures of emotions.
Case studies
An individual is diagnosed with terminal illness or an individual denying the fact of the broken relationship, which leads to seperation. The process of loss is obvious, the letting go and accepting the fact or truth wasnt there at the instance. Individual in such situation go through deep suffering and going through a journey only themselves would understand. There may be are complicated anxiety, fear, worries, denial, anger, frustration and the list would go on & on.
Truth in this particular situation of illness are a bit difficult for the individual to accept as the individual losing capability to do things on their own.
Truth are not easy to handle, truth stares into the eyes of the individual and it take great courage for the individual to face it. How would one able to face the truth happening "internally and externally?". What are the crucial factors in identifying and understand oneself? Would it be too late to do such preparation in the face of such crisis or should one have deeper contemplation pertaining to it?
Contributed by Hypnosis Training Asia from the years of experience dealing with the individual from different walks of life on the process of letting go in death & conscious dying.
CLF
Contact: +65 8333 3898
Email: Canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Article from a Young Monk
By Shananda Barua, A personal friend of Hypnosis Training Asia, a Thai Monk with compassion & passion for lives.
Anyhow everyone wants to be successful in life, but not all get together with success. Because of our great weakness that we do not know how to use as well behave though we have language to speak, have ability to control, have power to destroy and personal quality in our mind. Successful people are well known and respected; the stories of their lives are recoded and studied by both their social group and next generations. They are therefore immortalized and looked upon as a source of creative idea for those who desire to succeed like wise.
We are being Buddhists and have enough understanding about the life as well more responsibilities to the welfare of beings around us. To be obedient our duties we should think about the success in life. On the other hand to achieve the success we must find the key to open the door of the success in our day today life. The Buddha has taught us the way to success in many of his discourses. According to one of these discourses, there are four virtues that, when developed, lead to success and enable man to achieve his goals in life. So, here these four types of keys are clear mention that Will, Effort, Active Thought, and Wisdom (saying to Pali; Chanda, Viriya, Citta, and Vimamsa).
The first key to success is the will to work or to fulfill one’s duties to the best of one’s ability. This means that one should have desire, interest, and strong determination in mind to work. There should be the right attitude toward what one is expected to do. Will is, in fact, a primary condition in the carrying out of one’s responsibilities, without which nothing much can be talented.
The second is effort or urgency in one’s undertakings. This implies the eternal application of energy to the work one is supposed to do. When we undertake to do something, we should use ourselves, fully and continually, until the duty is completed. If students are simply interested in the subjects they study, but do not want to actively commit themselves, the chance for success would be very thin indeed. Effort is therefore a very important and essential factor for success in our life. We should try to cultivate this virtue in us. Even though if we be able to understand in right way then we may bring peach and success within short time in life.
Active thought means the thought about one’s work which is well-directed and always applied. We use to do usually to survive day today life by using our won technique and power of brain from our limited experienced. So, good thinking is very much fruitful to be succeeding in everyone’s life. Can be mentioned that ‘no pains, no gains’ whatever we do, be it great or small, we have to apply our active thought to it, again and again, until it is finished. If we do not succeed at the first attempt, we should not feel discouraged or unhappy, but should think about it carefully and work even harder. We should be positive in our thinking and firm in our goals.
The last virtue is also very important to be succeeded. Wisdom is necessary in all kinds of activities. Without wisdom totally impossible to bring success or achieve the goal whatever we want to gain or something day to day our life. When we work, we should always examine and observe the work we do; we should have good planning from the beginning and a good understanding of the work that what I am going to do. It is not enough to work hard; we should also work wisely, using our intelligence and common sense. Only those who work in this way will attain a high degree of success in their lives within short time. The use of wisdom will prevent us from doing wrong things and make sure our success to follow the good examples and moral advices that given by the Buddha. The Buddha has given us much more directions to follow and showed the way to achieve the purpose without doing any sinful activities as well using wrong ideas in own mind. It is therefore very important that we learn how to cultivate wisdom and how to use it in all our activities. Hopeful that, we have mutual understanding and can be able to remember in our mind above these four keys to success in life.
At the end I would like to mention that very difficult to gain the object in this modern life whatever we want to reach to ambition. This is the period that full of competition, greediness, hatred and delusion for things around the human beings. So, to be succeeding in this present time we should remember the things what are very much essential and important for oneself as well welfare of the beings in this universe.
Kind DeedsWritten by Shananda Barua, A Personal Friend of Hypnosis Training Asia, a Thai Monk, with compassion & passion for lives.
Little drops of water,
Little grains of sand,
Make the mighty ocean,
And the pleasant land.
Thus the little minutes,
Humble though they be,
Make the mighty ages of eternity.
Little deeds of kindness,
Little words of love,
Make this earth an Eden
Like the heaven above.
CLF
Contact: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Anyhow everyone wants to be successful in life, but not all get together with success. Because of our great weakness that we do not know how to use as well behave though we have language to speak, have ability to control, have power to destroy and personal quality in our mind. Successful people are well known and respected; the stories of their lives are recoded and studied by both their social group and next generations. They are therefore immortalized and looked upon as a source of creative idea for those who desire to succeed like wise.
We are being Buddhists and have enough understanding about the life as well more responsibilities to the welfare of beings around us. To be obedient our duties we should think about the success in life. On the other hand to achieve the success we must find the key to open the door of the success in our day today life. The Buddha has taught us the way to success in many of his discourses. According to one of these discourses, there are four virtues that, when developed, lead to success and enable man to achieve his goals in life. So, here these four types of keys are clear mention that Will, Effort, Active Thought, and Wisdom (saying to Pali; Chanda, Viriya, Citta, and Vimamsa).
The first key to success is the will to work or to fulfill one’s duties to the best of one’s ability. This means that one should have desire, interest, and strong determination in mind to work. There should be the right attitude toward what one is expected to do. Will is, in fact, a primary condition in the carrying out of one’s responsibilities, without which nothing much can be talented.
The second is effort or urgency in one’s undertakings. This implies the eternal application of energy to the work one is supposed to do. When we undertake to do something, we should use ourselves, fully and continually, until the duty is completed. If students are simply interested in the subjects they study, but do not want to actively commit themselves, the chance for success would be very thin indeed. Effort is therefore a very important and essential factor for success in our life. We should try to cultivate this virtue in us. Even though if we be able to understand in right way then we may bring peach and success within short time in life.
Active thought means the thought about one’s work which is well-directed and always applied. We use to do usually to survive day today life by using our won technique and power of brain from our limited experienced. So, good thinking is very much fruitful to be succeeding in everyone’s life. Can be mentioned that ‘no pains, no gains’ whatever we do, be it great or small, we have to apply our active thought to it, again and again, until it is finished. If we do not succeed at the first attempt, we should not feel discouraged or unhappy, but should think about it carefully and work even harder. We should be positive in our thinking and firm in our goals.
The last virtue is also very important to be succeeded. Wisdom is necessary in all kinds of activities. Without wisdom totally impossible to bring success or achieve the goal whatever we want to gain or something day to day our life. When we work, we should always examine and observe the work we do; we should have good planning from the beginning and a good understanding of the work that what I am going to do. It is not enough to work hard; we should also work wisely, using our intelligence and common sense. Only those who work in this way will attain a high degree of success in their lives within short time. The use of wisdom will prevent us from doing wrong things and make sure our success to follow the good examples and moral advices that given by the Buddha. The Buddha has given us much more directions to follow and showed the way to achieve the purpose without doing any sinful activities as well using wrong ideas in own mind. It is therefore very important that we learn how to cultivate wisdom and how to use it in all our activities. Hopeful that, we have mutual understanding and can be able to remember in our mind above these four keys to success in life.
At the end I would like to mention that very difficult to gain the object in this modern life whatever we want to reach to ambition. This is the period that full of competition, greediness, hatred and delusion for things around the human beings. So, to be succeeding in this present time we should remember the things what are very much essential and important for oneself as well welfare of the beings in this universe.
Kind DeedsWritten by Shananda Barua, A Personal Friend of Hypnosis Training Asia, a Thai Monk, with compassion & passion for lives.
Little drops of water,
Little grains of sand,
Make the mighty ocean,
And the pleasant land.
Thus the little minutes,
Humble though they be,
Make the mighty ages of eternity.
Little deeds of kindness,
Little words of love,
Make this earth an Eden
Like the heaven above.
CLF
Contact: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Article from a Young Monk
By Shananda Barua, A personal friend of Hypnosis Training Asia, a Thai Monk with compassion & passion for lives.
Anyhow everyone wants to be successful in life, but not all get together with success. Because of our great weakness that we do not know how to use as well behave though we have language to speak, have ability to control, have power to destroy and personal quality in our mind. Successful people are well known and respected; the stories of their lives are recoded and studied by both their social group and next generations. They are therefore immortalized and looked upon as a source of creative idea for those who desire to succeed like wise.
We are being Buddhists and have enough understanding about the life as well more responsibilities to the welfare of beings around us. To be obedient our duties we should think about the success in life. On the other hand to achieve the success we must find the key to open the door of the success in our day today life. The Buddha has taught us the way to success in many of his discourses. According to one of these discourses, there are four virtues that, when developed, lead to success and enable man to achieve his goals in life. So, here these four types of keys are clear mention that Will, Effort, Active Thought, and Wisdom (saying to Pali; Chanda, Viriya, Citta, and Vimamsa).
The first key to success is the will to work or to fulfill one’s duties to the best of one’s ability. This means that one should have desire, interest, and strong determination in mind to work. There should be the right attitude toward what one is expected to do. Will is, in fact, a primary condition in the carrying out of one’s responsibilities, without which nothing much can be talented.
The second is effort or urgency in one’s undertakings. This implies the eternal application of energy to the work one is supposed to do. When we undertake to do something, we should use ourselves, fully and continually, until the duty is completed. If students are simply interested in the subjects they study, but do not want to actively commit themselves, the chance for success would be very thin indeed. Effort is therefore a very important and essential factor for success in our life. We should try to cultivate this virtue in us. Even though if we be able to understand in right way then we may bring peach and success within short time in life.
Active thought means the thought about one’s work which is well-directed and always applied. We use to do usually to survive day today life by using our won technique and power of brain from our limited experienced. So, good thinking is very much fruitful to be succeeding in everyone’s life. Can be mentioned that ‘no pains, no gains’ whatever we do, be it great or small, we have to apply our active thought to it, again and again, until it is finished. If we do not succeed at the first attempt, we should not feel discouraged or unhappy, but should think about it carefully and work even harder. We should be positive in our thinking and firm in our goals.
The last virtue is also very important to be succeeded. Wisdom is necessary in all kinds of activities. Without wisdom totally impossible to bring success or achieve the goal whatever we want to gain or something day to day our life. When we work, we should always examine and observe the work we do; we should have good planning from the beginning and a good understanding of the work that what I am going to do. It is not enough to work hard; we should also work wisely, using our intelligence and common sense. Only those who work in this way will attain a high degree of success in their lives within short time. The use of wisdom will prevent us from doing wrong things and make sure our success to follow the good examples and moral advices that given by the Buddha. The Buddha has given us much more directions to follow and showed the way to achieve the purpose without doing any sinful activities as well using wrong ideas in own mind. It is therefore very important that we learn how to cultivate wisdom and how to use it in all our activities. Hopeful that, we have mutual understanding and can be able to remember in our mind above these four keys to success in life.
At the end I would like to mention that very difficult to gain the object in this modern life whatever we want to reach to ambition. This is the period that full of competition, greediness, hatred and delusion for things around the human beings. So, to be succeeding in this present time we should remember the things what are very much essential and important for oneself as well welfare of the beings in this universe.
Kind DeedsWritten by Shananda Barua, A Personal Friend of Hypnosis Training Asia, a Thai Monk, with compassion & passion for lives.
Little drops of water,
Little grains of sand,
Make the mighty ocean,
And the pleasant land.
Thus the little minutes,
Humble though they be,
Make the mighty ages of eternity.
Little deeds of kindness,
Little words of love,
Make this earth an Eden
Like the heaven above.
CLF
Contact: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Anyhow everyone wants to be successful in life, but not all get together with success. Because of our great weakness that we do not know how to use as well behave though we have language to speak, have ability to control, have power to destroy and personal quality in our mind. Successful people are well known and respected; the stories of their lives are recoded and studied by both their social group and next generations. They are therefore immortalized and looked upon as a source of creative idea for those who desire to succeed like wise.
We are being Buddhists and have enough understanding about the life as well more responsibilities to the welfare of beings around us. To be obedient our duties we should think about the success in life. On the other hand to achieve the success we must find the key to open the door of the success in our day today life. The Buddha has taught us the way to success in many of his discourses. According to one of these discourses, there are four virtues that, when developed, lead to success and enable man to achieve his goals in life. So, here these four types of keys are clear mention that Will, Effort, Active Thought, and Wisdom (saying to Pali; Chanda, Viriya, Citta, and Vimamsa).
The first key to success is the will to work or to fulfill one’s duties to the best of one’s ability. This means that one should have desire, interest, and strong determination in mind to work. There should be the right attitude toward what one is expected to do. Will is, in fact, a primary condition in the carrying out of one’s responsibilities, without which nothing much can be talented.
The second is effort or urgency in one’s undertakings. This implies the eternal application of energy to the work one is supposed to do. When we undertake to do something, we should use ourselves, fully and continually, until the duty is completed. If students are simply interested in the subjects they study, but do not want to actively commit themselves, the chance for success would be very thin indeed. Effort is therefore a very important and essential factor for success in our life. We should try to cultivate this virtue in us. Even though if we be able to understand in right way then we may bring peach and success within short time in life.
Active thought means the thought about one’s work which is well-directed and always applied. We use to do usually to survive day today life by using our won technique and power of brain from our limited experienced. So, good thinking is very much fruitful to be succeeding in everyone’s life. Can be mentioned that ‘no pains, no gains’ whatever we do, be it great or small, we have to apply our active thought to it, again and again, until it is finished. If we do not succeed at the first attempt, we should not feel discouraged or unhappy, but should think about it carefully and work even harder. We should be positive in our thinking and firm in our goals.
The last virtue is also very important to be succeeded. Wisdom is necessary in all kinds of activities. Without wisdom totally impossible to bring success or achieve the goal whatever we want to gain or something day to day our life. When we work, we should always examine and observe the work we do; we should have good planning from the beginning and a good understanding of the work that what I am going to do. It is not enough to work hard; we should also work wisely, using our intelligence and common sense. Only those who work in this way will attain a high degree of success in their lives within short time. The use of wisdom will prevent us from doing wrong things and make sure our success to follow the good examples and moral advices that given by the Buddha. The Buddha has given us much more directions to follow and showed the way to achieve the purpose without doing any sinful activities as well using wrong ideas in own mind. It is therefore very important that we learn how to cultivate wisdom and how to use it in all our activities. Hopeful that, we have mutual understanding and can be able to remember in our mind above these four keys to success in life.
At the end I would like to mention that very difficult to gain the object in this modern life whatever we want to reach to ambition. This is the period that full of competition, greediness, hatred and delusion for things around the human beings. So, to be succeeding in this present time we should remember the things what are very much essential and important for oneself as well welfare of the beings in this universe.
Kind DeedsWritten by Shananda Barua, A Personal Friend of Hypnosis Training Asia, a Thai Monk, with compassion & passion for lives.
Little drops of water,
Little grains of sand,
Make the mighty ocean,
And the pleasant land.
Thus the little minutes,
Humble though they be,
Make the mighty ages of eternity.
Little deeds of kindness,
Little words of love,
Make this earth an Eden
Like the heaven above.
CLF
Contact: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Thursday, June 19, 2008
自我介绍
自我简介 (to be updated again: 1.6.17)
大家好，我是林明强,我是一名专业的美国合格催眠导师 (Certified Instructor in Hypnotherapy, Certified Hypnotist),人生教练 以及一名自杀预防与干预导师(Certified Instructor for Suicide Intervention & Prevention)。
我的催眠治疗中心成立于两千零七年，专门帮助人们提高在遇到工作或生活中的挑战时所必需的技能和方法。我为各个行业的人们工作，在他们工作领域或是在个人生活里，在健康，在经济方面遇到了困难，或是在生活方面遇到的问题得到个人突破。
我在2004年毕业于澳大利亚心理学院培训了应用心理学的咨询心理学专业，在澳大利亚的布里斯班市进修了人生终点死亡过程 辅导，在美国NGH认证中心培训了催眠师与催眠术导师专业文凭和在南洋理工学校in Certificate in Organizing successful Aging。我也在如何处理人生终点死亡过程， 悲伤，精神健康，冲突管理，人际关系，性别问题和其它方面有专业的培训。我也考取美国催眠正书与执照来扶持需要帮助的人与给予更好治疗方策面对人生问题。
我早期的“人事”工作于十年前，从事义工帮助残疾儿童，精神病患者，晚期病人，艾滋病患者，变性人和孤寡老人的经验，帮助我积累了大量的实际经验和对心理学的充分理解转于全职慈善工作到成立催眠辅导组织-Hypnosis Training Asia，这些年累积的工作对我现在从事催眠治疗法与心理辅导给于我很大帮助。
在我进行心理咨询中所运用的催眠与心理治疗之前，辅导工作是 有限的帮助到一些人。 如很多在我接处范围内或在我专业以外需要做人生改变的人群中，有些他们在辅导过程中有些成功的在人生得到突破，很多是有心而无力在看到效果前就放弃了，不是他们没意志力， 没 耐力 等。这属是暂时性的激励与改变。
有很多原因可以让处于过渡期的你，我轻易的放弃，例如环境因素，包括家庭，社会支持；个人因素包括个人修养，习惯以及其它能阻止他们成功的一切因素。在特别的人群当中，一些人的人生的失败并不是因为他们嗜酒或是恶习引起的，或是他们是品行不好的人，而是他们缺乏必要的规律，不建全环境与心态结构等因素导致的。
催眠辅导学的工作过程在是重要的，帮助人们敞开心怀，荡然放下， 活出另一个美好人生。
暂时的改变与从催眠心里疗法得到的永久的转变是完全不一样的。比如我们看回我们生命里，很容易得发觉到每个人还被有一些以往发生的循环左右着。
我们由心希望您们如蝶破茧而出，活出真我，辛福人生。
祝福您，快乐美满人生
Contact: +65 8333 3898
Email:canlovefoundation@gmail.com
大家好，我是林明强,我是一名专业的美国合格催眠导师 (Certified Instructor in Hypnotherapy, Certified Hypnotist),人生教练 以及一名自杀预防与干预导师(Certified Instructor for Suicide Intervention & Prevention)。
我的催眠治疗中心成立于两千零七年，专门帮助人们提高在遇到工作或生活中的挑战时所必需的技能和方法。我为各个行业的人们工作，在他们工作领域或是在个人生活里，在健康，在经济方面遇到了困难，或是在生活方面遇到的问题得到个人突破。
我在2004年毕业于澳大利亚心理学院培训了应用心理学的咨询心理学专业，在澳大利亚的布里斯班市进修了人生终点死亡过程 辅导，在美国NGH认证中心培训了催眠师与催眠术导师专业文凭和在南洋理工学校in Certificate in Organizing successful Aging。我也在如何处理人生终点死亡过程， 悲伤，精神健康，冲突管理，人际关系，性别问题和其它方面有专业的培训。我也考取美国催眠正书与执照来扶持需要帮助的人与给予更好治疗方策面对人生问题。
我早期的“人事”工作于十年前，从事义工帮助残疾儿童，精神病患者，晚期病人，艾滋病患者，变性人和孤寡老人的经验，帮助我积累了大量的实际经验和对心理学的充分理解转于全职慈善工作到成立催眠辅导组织-Hypnosis Training Asia，这些年累积的工作对我现在从事催眠治疗法与心理辅导给于我很大帮助。
在我进行心理咨询中所运用的催眠与心理治疗之前，辅导工作是 有限的帮助到一些人。 如很多在我接处范围内或在我专业以外需要做人生改变的人群中，有些他们在辅导过程中有些成功的在人生得到突破，很多是有心而无力在看到效果前就放弃了，不是他们没意志力， 没 耐力 等。这属是暂时性的激励与改变。
有很多原因可以让处于过渡期的你，我轻易的放弃，例如环境因素，包括家庭，社会支持；个人因素包括个人修养，习惯以及其它能阻止他们成功的一切因素。在特别的人群当中，一些人的人生的失败并不是因为他们嗜酒或是恶习引起的，或是他们是品行不好的人，而是他们缺乏必要的规律，不建全环境与心态结构等因素导致的。
催眠辅导学的工作过程在是重要的，帮助人们敞开心怀，荡然放下， 活出另一个美好人生。
暂时的改变与从催眠心里疗法得到的永久的转变是完全不一样的。比如我们看回我们生命里，很容易得发觉到每个人还被有一些以往发生的循环左右着。
我们由心希望您们如蝶破茧而出，活出真我，辛福人生。
祝福您，快乐美满人生
Contact: +65 8333 3898
Email:canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Empowering the Young Hearts
R.E.A.R
Given the above R.E.A.R, provide the first step in connecting with the young or the youth.
Rethink on what is childhood and parenting methods, cultural differences of societies in the different geographical location? What are the multi-directional approach attributing towards the well-being and best interest of the children?
For talks and workshops, please feel free to email to the following email address.
Sincerely Yours,
CLF
HOTLINE: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Given the above R.E.A.R, provide the first step in connecting with the young or the youth.
Rethink on what is childhood and parenting methods, cultural differences of societies in the different geographical location? What are the multi-directional approach attributing towards the well-being and best interest of the children?
For talks and workshops, please feel free to email to the following email address.
Sincerely Yours,
CLF
HOTLINE: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: canlovefoundation@gmail.com
Testimonial: A Letter of Thanks from a young family
Send through dexter.lim@hypnosisasia.com.sg
Sent: Tuesday, June 17, 2008 2:49 PM
To: Dexter C.Lim;
Subject: Wonderful day
Date: Jun.17’2008
Kind Attn.: Mr. Dexter
We would like to inform you that yesterday (Jun.16’2008) is our family happiest after so many months.
Let us start from the morning;
1) Before I went off to work, I have started to hug my children and I will said “DAD LOVE YOU”.
Although I knew that the 02 kids have slept but I can feel that “DAD” has done something to them and they are sleeping with their smile.
2) Suddenly, I have received “XXX” phone call that she forgot to correction for the tuition class and she have almost 30 questions wrong and if 20 times per each question then she have to write about 600 sentences and she has afraid that the tutor will scold her.
Our solution to her is;
We cool her down first and We have spoken to her that not to worry and we will tell the tutor to accept Thursday but she must try her best to write as much as she can so that the tutor will not scold “XXXX (at first we though that the tutor want her to state back and write finish).
But thing get changed, when my spouse approached the tutor and he told XXXX that she do not need to correct and he wanted XXXX to write the Newspaper cutting instead.
“XXXX” was so happy and she called me straight back from the tuition centre.
3) Next surprise is that when I came back home and I saw “XXXX” drawing a picture and she said 01 for Father Day and another 01 for Uncle Dexter.
I was so pleased that normally she does not like to draw except the school art class because she already said that her drawing is not good.
But today I saw her drawing with happiness and I feel very happy to hug her and said “Well done”.
4) After my dinner, four of us sat down watching “TV” and talk about TV programme and their drawing.
We feel that is very happy during that few hours.
We have so talk about how to bring ourselves to her level meaning that if “XXXXXX” continue to make herself happy every day.
When next week school re-open and she knew how to plan her work and she will not feel worry for her next examination.
We also did tell her that we will accept all the mark her score.
5) About 10:00 p.m. “XXXX suddenly pointed out that we have to brush our teeth and hug together before we can go to bed.
My spouse suggested to them that from now on ward every day have to do before sleeping time and we all agree.
6) After the 02 kids went to bed, we have some discuss about why today the 02 kids are so special.
But my spouse keep on think that how can “XXXX” does well in her subject.
I told her that if a person opens up her mind and willing to do what she likes, she will be improving for all her subject.
“XXX” today feel happy also because of the tutor not push her too far..
We hope every will do our best to make sure our kids has a very please day.
Please kindly advice us if we have done wrongly.
Parents
Hi Dexter,
Thank you for your professional teaching and we learn so much.
We feel that all enties things every parents knew to do it BUT not every one know how to do it in a Right way.
Through the mistake then we will guide them into correct way.
Million Thanks for your guidance
Parents
Note: Names deleted due to the private & confidentiality of young children and parents involved.
HYPNOSIS TRAINING ASIA
HOTLINE: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: hypnotherapysg@gmail.com
Sent: Tuesday, June 17, 2008 2:49 PM
To: Dexter C.Lim;
Subject: Wonderful day
Date: Jun.17’2008
Kind Attn.: Mr. Dexter
We would like to inform you that yesterday (Jun.16’2008) is our family happiest after so many months.
Let us start from the morning;
1) Before I went off to work, I have started to hug my children and I will said “DAD LOVE YOU”.
Although I knew that the 02 kids have slept but I can feel that “DAD” has done something to them and they are sleeping with their smile.
2) Suddenly, I have received “XXX” phone call that she forgot to correction for the tuition class and she have almost 30 questions wrong and if 20 times per each question then she have to write about 600 sentences and she has afraid that the tutor will scold her.
Our solution to her is;
We cool her down first and We have spoken to her that not to worry and we will tell the tutor to accept Thursday but she must try her best to write as much as she can so that the tutor will not scold “XXXX (at first we though that the tutor want her to state back and write finish).
But thing get changed, when my spouse approached the tutor and he told XXXX that she do not need to correct and he wanted XXXX to write the Newspaper cutting instead.
“XXXX” was so happy and she called me straight back from the tuition centre.
3) Next surprise is that when I came back home and I saw “XXXX” drawing a picture and she said 01 for Father Day and another 01 for Uncle Dexter.
I was so pleased that normally she does not like to draw except the school art class because she already said that her drawing is not good.
But today I saw her drawing with happiness and I feel very happy to hug her and said “Well done”.
4) After my dinner, four of us sat down watching “TV” and talk about TV programme and their drawing.
We feel that is very happy during that few hours.
We have so talk about how to bring ourselves to her level meaning that if “XXXXXX” continue to make herself happy every day.
When next week school re-open and she knew how to plan her work and she will not feel worry for her next examination.
We also did tell her that we will accept all the mark her score.
5) About 10:00 p.m. “XXXX suddenly pointed out that we have to brush our teeth and hug together before we can go to bed.
My spouse suggested to them that from now on ward every day have to do before sleeping time and we all agree.
6) After the 02 kids went to bed, we have some discuss about why today the 02 kids are so special.
But my spouse keep on think that how can “XXXX” does well in her subject.
I told her that if a person opens up her mind and willing to do what she likes, she will be improving for all her subject.
“XXX” today feel happy also because of the tutor not push her too far..
We hope every will do our best to make sure our kids has a very please day.
Please kindly advice us if we have done wrongly.
Parents
Hi Dexter,
Thank you for your professional teaching and we learn so much.
We feel that all enties things every parents knew to do it BUT not every one know how to do it in a Right way.
Through the mistake then we will guide them into correct way.
Million Thanks for your guidance
Parents
Note: Names deleted due to the private & confidentiality of young children and parents involved.
HYPNOSIS TRAINING ASIA
HOTLINE: +65 8333 3898
EMAIL: hypnotherapysg@gmail.com