Testimonials
Probably God asked me to meet him to release my pain which
already stayed at me for more than 3 months.
He helped me to cure myself... renewed my life and give
positive feedback about who I'm, how good I am n how to run my life in the
future.
He's not only my mentor but also a good friend... and I
like him to be part of my circle friends....
Thanks my dear Dexter... and wishing you that God will help
you a lot for your future.... in sharing your work with many people :)
Andi S.Indana
Airlines Industry
Indonesia, Jakarta
2008
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I am Annie; I am 50 years old and single. I was a childcare
principle for the past 12 years. I decided to switch my career from principal
to sales for a change of environment.
However, after switching my career, I had to struggle in
the job, as sales are totally new to me. My income is not fixed and I was very
stressed and anxious about the uncertainty of my income, as I need the income
to pay my bills and my daily expenses.
It was during, this period of time that I met Dexter.
Dexter kindly offered to do therapy for me. I agreed, but on the day of the
appointment, I was contemplating whether I should go, as I was pretty skeptical
about hypnosis. However I went, since I had already promised Dexter.
During the process of coaching, as I reflected my past, I
had panic attacked and realized that I had other issues and I wanted to
terminate the process as I felt fearful and venerable.
When I told Dexter about my decision to stop the process,
he was very understanding, He allowed me to think over. He also assured me that
if at any point that I need him, He will be there for me.
However, I also realized that if I wanted a breakthrough in
my life I had to go through the process. I am glad that I have plucked the
courage to go through the following process with encouragement from one of my
best friends and Dexter-.
Performing Art Therapy
The performing Art Therapy has helped me to be aware of my body language and
movement. I believed that I could move more confidently and connect better with
people now.
Hypnosis
I am a very restless person, Hypnosis helps to clam me down, remove my anxiety,
fear, confusion and be at peace with myself.
The whole process had helped me to have more self-
awareness and through the process I learnt I had to make choices like to live
for myself and care for myself before I could extend my love to others. Before,
the process I was confused as to what I should do with my life, as there are
many distractions from family members and friends. My thought were not focus,
there were full of fear and anxiety. The process had helped me to have clarity
of mind and to be more focus on what I wanted to do with my life.
foresee that future
sessions will help me to succeed in life. I will have the courage to be the
person who I really am. Now I have been doing well in my sales, with law of
attraction and sales training apart from Coaching and Hypnosis.
Dexter’s years of experiences in sales & marketing gave
me a thorough understanding on the psychology aspects behind the sales process and
handling my clients.
The coaching & training style of Dexter is very
interactive. It is fun. Dexter is able to deliver what I wanted to achieve for
myself.
In conclusion, I would say the work of Hypnosis Training Asia helps
to change people life to inspire other people life and to be a blessing to
people for the betterment of the society.
Annie Tan, 50
Educational Adviser
Singapore
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My name is Patrick, 31, a graphic designer in profession,
working in Singapore.
I get to know Hypnosis Centre Singapore
by chance and I came from Malacca. Dexter has work with me of my fear to be
assertive at work, guided me to deal with my low self esteem and relationship
issues.
After the first session of coaching, I am empowered to able
to say no to people rather than be a YES man and I felt really good about
myself the first time to be able to be true to my own emotional needs.
I have the problem in getting the right relationship and
alway finds myself attracting the wrong group of people. I am always feeling
lonely, Dexter also bring to my own awareness of what I want, what I need to
deal with it and teach me about the law of attraction which I knew long ago.
But with Dexter, the process seemed clearer each time I see him for Coaching
and Hypnosis session.
We work through processes that during my childhood days
which had moulded me to be what and who I am and I find the many difficulties
in my growth up life. Dexter helps me to see clearly who I am, what need to
change and guilded me to break my self sabotaging thoughts patterns and be more
in control of my emotions. I am a more confident person and through the session
I have reaped so much which my bosses and colleagues see the differences and
treated me differently compared to before which can be a pain to me.
I have work with pyschologist before and I did not get such
results for the same issues. I believe it is due to Dexter's passion and
experiences working with different people in life that makes him so different
in helping me getting the results I did not expect.
Thank you once again, Dexter!
Patrick Ong, 31
Graphic Designer
Singapore-Malacca
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Dexter Calvin Lim whom I have had known for 5 years is a
mature and responsible individual. A compassionate man by nature, he shows
empathy towards people from all walks of life and is a good listener to
problems. He is Capable of resolving conflicts in human relationship. His
friendly personality, professionalism, passion in life and excellent
interpersonal skills has won him a lot of friends. I will highly recommend him
as a counsellor as he has been proven to be able to reach out, brightening up
and empowering people's life.
Kris Ong
Banking Industry, Mother of 3
Singapore
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I went through depression due to broken relationship in Dec
2004. i was really very down and depressed. I was unable to concentrate on what
ever I was doing, i wouldn’t focus well and I was having the fear to be alone.
I felt trapped by the experiences in my relationship issues; I needed someone
to talk to all the while during these periods. I avoided public events too.
I have met Mr. Dexter during my studies, who guided me step
by step to get out of my trap in my depression.
He has willingly spent his time counseling me without
expecting anything, to help me to understand myself better to gain self
knowledge & self empowerment. During the process of counseling and
communication with Mr. Dexter, I was brought to my self awareness and helped me
to expand possibilities and creativities in my issues
His great selfless assistance has really help me to come
out of that situation and i am grateful for whatever he has done for me through
his patience, his compassion, his guidance and most importantly, his care &
concern at the point of my life.
Now which I have gained the balance of my life and Mr.
Dexter has taught me valuable tools and techniques which I believed they will
be part of me for the many years to come. They would be helpful to me whenever I
face any crisis or challenges at any point of my life to emerge as an
over-comer Again and Again and Again!
I always have him in my mind to call him during all happy
occasions in my life to share my joy and “rebirth” in my life.
I AM CHANGED; I HAVE SUCCESSFULLY BREAK THE SELF
SABOTAGING THOUGHTS/TALK PATTERN. I AM ENJOYING EVERY PRESENSE OF MY LIFE OF
BEING THE “REAL” ME
Rita
Civil Servant, Singapore
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Dexter has come by to me as some one warmth and helpful. I
was amazed that he has such wonderful gifting to be able to listens and listen
well at his age; I am for sure his skills in helping people definitely comes
with experiences in handling many issues of the different people coming to him
for life coaching.
I appreciate him from the bottom of my heart for the
process he went through with me without expectation of reciprocation from me
when I was down and faces challenges in my career. He has helped me to be more
aware of myself, helping me to help myself to let go. At times, I went “Ah
Huh!” at different juncture of sharing. That shows his effectiveness without
injecting any solutions from his personal perspective.
It helped me to be able to view my issues from a different
stand point and gaining self efficiency. He is a person who is with a big heart
always willingly to share his passion, hope, joy, enthusiasm of life; he is fun
loving person with at heart, passionate about life and having a great sense of
humours about things in life that made him what he is today!
Experience to see it!
Eppie
Sin
Teacher Assistance
International School, Singapore
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I was a full time housewife for the past 13 years and I am
48 years old now. I would like to share this with everyone who read this page
about Dexter’s work and what he had done for me and my teenage son.
During the life’s darkest trail, Dexter was there for me
and my sixteen years old son with open arms and with plenty of tender loving
care (TLC). If not for Dexter, I would not be where I am at the current stage
of life to embrace the truth of the infidelity of my spouse. Dexter has given
me the gift of self awareness and self empowerment. He guide me to let go of
the wrong belief system that I am not a good, attractive wife, therefore my
marriage failed.
He has worked through with me on my self-sabotaging
thoughts patterns and mind-set to help me find my balance, guide me dealt with
my confident issues, helping me to gain self- empowerment with the freedom of
choices in life by using different form of therapeutic tools especially music
and metaphors to help me see things in a different “Light”.
Far being perfect, of course, at times I gave in to my
emotions and confused mind. He was always there and is there for me as a
counsellor, life skills educator /Coach, reminding me and provided the support
to me yet not allowing me to be reliance on him.
Dexter went beyond his call of duty to help me and my son
out and be with us. He has helped my son to work through the process of his
first love relationship and sexual issues. Dexter is kind, warmth, patience, congruence,
helpful and encouraging all these while through his commitment and dedication
in reaching out to my son and I.
I would strongly recommend Dexter as your Life Coach and
Counsellor. DO NOT hesitate to pick up the phone when you needed help and I would
say Dexter would be the right one for you.
Nancy Chang
Business Owner
Spa Treatment products
Singapore
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While perusing my dream of setting up my chain of café in Malaysia, I
lost track in life. The first Café was unsuccessful and due to many differences
among the business partner, we decided to go on our ways after nine months of
hard work and sweat.
I was depleted of energy and motivation after the closure
of my business. I was affected by the disappointment, sadness, anger and
frustration and lost my focus in life.
I was glad to have met Dexter and he inspired me to keep my
dream alive. He encourages me to reach for the star and not just the tallest of
buildings. Now, I am recharged and ready for another GO to reach higher that I
have aimed for.
Talking to Dexter for a few hours on the innermost issues
in my life has help me to unveil issues about myself and expand my creativities
again to gain more insight in my future endeavor in my business which I have
not experience in a long time.
In Life, I believe everyone would need a gentle
push like what Dexter has given me. Dexter is a great life coach, whom I
believe have helped me and will also help you to re-shift and align the focus
back in life. He guided me with these three simple phrases of “I BELIEVE! I
CAN I WILL
Ken Wong
Café Owner
Malaysia, KL
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What I feel about Dexter? Well, I knew him through a
friend. Dexter used to travel to JB for visits and relaxation. Dexter
may look funny and cute on the outside but on the inside, you will find SOMEONE
else- powerful and effective motivator.
His passion in his work, his inspiration in life to reach
out to the community at large, his warmth, sincerity and caring nature make him
an effective helper, counselor, and communicator.
There are three occasions I would like to share with you:
Frist - My Granny
She's an old lady, who is always sitting on a chair with
her cigarette lighted, watching the TV and looking forward for any visitors
that could keep her company. Whenever Dexter arrives at my house, she would be
smiling at him, and chit chatting to him non-stop. As you know, youngster like
us would get annoyed from a long chat of grandmother stories and nagging, I
mean I do, but Dexter, with his patience and tender loving care, has never say
no or showed any annoyed expression on his face. My family and I were
amazed with his connection with the elderly, I really appreciate his
care and companion to my late granny. Thank you very much, Dexter!
Second - My best friend's Aunt
A middle-age lady lying on the bed in the hospital ward,
tears in the eyes with only minutes or hours of life left to see her own
children. Dexter was invited to JB by my best friend, Master, to see if he can
help in any way to do some work with her terminally ill aunt and her bereaved
cousins. Master told me that Dexter’s present was like a touching real life
story. The way Dexter console them when her aunt left this world for Eternity,
was like God sent them the much needed pillar to lean on.
Third Encounter - My 21 year old friend
One year back, Christina, my friend faced some family problem as well as relationship issues, and
attempted suicide. Friends and family were worried, we tried
to cheer her up and accompany her whenever we can. She was so withdrawn
to herself, even calling everyday didn’t help. So we decided to approach
Dexter in Singapore
upon how we can help her. Dexter came all the way to visit her,
talked to her, gave her his professional consultation, showed
her what she can do, and guided her to be aware of her own personality,
and changing her mindset. We saw her finally able
to accept new friends and start to smile as she really meant it in
just a few short weeks.
Now, when I encounter any problems, I won't hesitate to
consult Dexter. I would also recommend him to anyone who needs
a Life Coach. For he is the one whom I believe would really
guide you to the right path.
Michelle Lee
Event Organizer
Singapore-Malaysia, Johor Bahru
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During this period, he has shown to be a person that is
reliable, helpful and approachable. He has shown much caring to the staffs
under his charge and was always there to help out with any questions and
queries that they have.
He helped me, talked to me, share with me when I am in the
cross road of making decisions in the direction of my life and my career path.
I was glad to have met Dexter and finally come in term of myself and decided to
do what I really wanted to do.
Dexter is a very hands-on person and is a very people
oriented person. Just a few hours with him and you'll know he's really
passionate with his work because he would share with you without any hold back
to help you in your life regardless your race, age or economic status which I
have witness. I would not hesitate to make a referral to him as a counsellor or
a training coach as he is focus, he is compassionate, he is capable, he will be
committed to you, he know 100% of what is he doing and I know he will
contribute 100% to the work he is doing for you.
Julian Tan
Trainee Teacher
Singapore
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I have known Dexter for 3 years. He is a friend of my mum.
He is really a true friend indeed. He helped my mother through her time of
despair, where my father cheated on her of another woman. There was not a time
where Dexter would not be there for us. Although we are ages apart, I can
always communicate with him just like a friend, a brother & Dexter indeed a
life role model for me.
Dexter has been my confidant, and had
helped me boost my self esteem. Before knowing him, I had no
confidence and felt that I was short, ugly and useless. Basically I have low
self esteem. However, after knowing him, he had helped me boost my self esteem
and I feel good about myself. Dexter has always helped me in my studies when I
needed it, he was even willing to take time off from his busy schedule to help
me with my O level Chinese.
He had also helped me through one of my troubled times
besides helping me to cope with the broken relationship of my parents. When my
first girlfriend broke up with me, it was a very painful for
me! I was in a stage of depression, I thought that I could not live on without
my ex-girlfriend; I felt that I was in the wrong and blamed myself for her
leaving me. Dexter worked through the process with me and educated me about
relationship, sex and stuff in life. He was he never forceful or demands me to
take his advice and he gave me freedom of choice to choose what I want to do
with myself. He helped me to gain back my self confidence, see the
talent and potential lies within me. Now, I have a new perspective of
myself. Most importantly, he helped me to see and embrace life with passion and
getting my focus right.
So I would advise or refer anyone with problems to count on
Dexter for help. Now, I am a much happier person to face challenges in life.
Seeing Myself “Differently” have given me more energy to take
up new responsibility in school and doing well in my tertiary studies.
Thank you, Dexter for being with me throughout all these
times!
Andurew Tang
Tertiary Student, 17 years old
Singapore
2005
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I have known Dexter as a friend 2 years ago. He not only is
a good friend but also a good listener and introduced me to my volunteer
program that I am currently doing. Dexter who is a good listener, was there to
listen to my problems when my father passed away and also counselled me during
this hard time.
Dexter is compassionate, easy going and will go
for miles for a stranger. He is truly a philanthropist He is really someone who
will take time to listen to your problems. He is really someone who will take
time to listen to your problems
Raihana, Lady Jenna
Secretary, Local
University
Singapore
2006
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I have come to see Dexter for my challenges after being hospitalized
For 7 Days and followed by a 2months Medical leave to an accident in my work place. After
I returned to work, I felt that I could not cope as before with work changes
and with my colleagues even with my relationship with my girlfriend and family.
I constantly felt anger and frustration within me which sometimes got out of control
and build fences around me. I became possessive in relationship and lose
control of my emotions many times and did many things which hurt my loves one
and they just could not understand me. I felt my emotions are like roller
coaster and I could not be able to sleep well and constantly being
agitated by my issues at work, with my family and girlfriend.
I came to Dexter in the month of January 2007. During the first session of
Trinity Coaching and hypnosis session, I am more able to focus and more
creative in dealing with work and relationship changes. Now I am in my sixth
session of Trinity Coaching and Hypnosis to work through different issues I
have such as goal setting, learning to be able to communicate
better, how to creative meaningful relationships and more. After Practicing and
Practicing I am now more calmer dealing with my temper.
My relationship with my girlfriend, work colleagues and with family members improves
and my girl friend told me that I am changed to the person I once was and even
better. She even accompanied me and waited for me while I was doing the past
session with Dexter. Infect, she see the changes and encourage me to carry on
with the coaching and hypnosis even she knew nothing much about it and she is
very supportive toward me.
I am grateful to have met Dexter who is very focus in his job as a Coach and Hypnotherapies
to me as he listens and work through many processes with me also guided me to
able to have the creativity and passion in dealing with challenges in my
professional and personal life. Also Thanks to his patient as many of the time
due to busy schedule, I will Miss my practical and my homework, many of the
time he will understand and advice me to spend more time doing it.
I BET Dexter would have plenty to offer to anyone who is seeking for changes in
life challenges to able to embrace life situation in a more passionate way.
This is no joking his really someone you can go to when in needs…
Finally I will like to take this chance to Thanks Dexter again.
Jason Yap,
27
Logistic
Singapore
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Beng
Keong’s way of guiding me is amazingly therapeutic and effective on my first
session like butterfly breaking forth from its’ cocoon-A beautiful life emerge
when it seemed to be total darkness in my life.
Mdm Zhang. 51
Homemaker,
Singapore
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我跟一般家庭主妇没两样, 我有的是一个小康之家, 虽然家庭不富裕, 家庭生活还过得去. 全是靠先生驾德士的部份工资用来维持家庭与两个孩子的学费与开销.
我是个带着与前夫生的一个孩子的离婚妇,
重嫁給在路上讨生活的老实人. 我也为他生了一个儿子，现在一所名校就读。 大儿子也长大在社会里工作了。在理，我也在经济上因该是比较轻松了， 可是因某种因素，家庭不团结，大儿子跟小儿子之间有许多摩擦， 这在我生了小儿子后发觉到大儿子行为，态度有所不同。到了大儿子成年到入伍到社会工作，两个儿子之间的问题， 摩擦更大，更明显。 很多时候也不知道要如何化解儿子的问题。 先生这时也不知道何时染上赌瘾，跟朋友去马场赌马， 家用变得不定时，后来给不出。 这样的吵吵闹闹的生活也过了三年， 我也断断续续做些临时工，赚点钱补贴家用与小儿子的学费和零用钱。大儿子书读不多，也自己赚自己用。这期间，有点积蓄也被先生掏空了，两个孩子所看到父亲与续父的行为，也搞到关系不好。 孩子跟父亲的关系也疏远了。 有时，跟父亲吵架，我这做妈妈的也被夹在中间， 感受也不好。
在这几年，为了家里，财务的事搞到睡眠不好，心情也差， 烦到有时精神快崩溃了。时时有过轻生的念头， 觉得死了就一了白了，不需要去看，也不需要去烦。有一次想的想，就想到不然把老鼠药掺杂在菜里给大家吃，大家也不用再吵，一起同归黄泉路。 可是心里就产生了疙瘩，有点害怕，就打了个电话给明强求助。 明强也马上接见我， 也不知道我有轻生念头。
经过明强耐心聆听，辅导，也做了催眠。
那种平静，平安，心清静于心产生。这明强引导我做自我催眠过程中，我也得到一些领悟。在这过程里，我也慢慢理解怎样去处理自己所面对的烦恼，也有重新认识自己。
在我找明强之前，他也知道我家里的问题也辅导过我的大儿子。我非常庆辛， 勇敢拨了那通电话给明强。
陈太太
48
新加玻
口述笔记
2007
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